Choosing Your Host Family

Why Mutual Matching Matters

If you feel that the family you are interviewing with is a good fit, then you can agree to match. Once you do, you will no longer be able to match with another family, so it is important to be sure you are making the right choice.

Confirm the Match Carefully

Before saying yes, take one final moment to think through the conversations you have had. Do you feel positive about the family’s communication style, the children’s needs, and the day-to-day responsibilities? If the answer is yes, then you can move forward with confidence.

Plan Your Next Steps

After you agree to match, the next step is usually choosing an arrival date and preparing for your move to the United States. At that point, your au pair journey starts to feel very real.

This is also a good time to keep learning about what to expect during your au pair year, so you can arrive feeling prepared, informed, and excited for what is ahead.

Learn More About Matching With a Host Family

Choosing your host family is one of the biggest decisions you will make as an au pair. Taking time to ask thoughtful questions, reflect on your strengths, and focus on fit can help you build the foundation for a successful year.

If you want to better understand the process, learn more about matching with a host family and what to expect before you accept your match.